I often wonder how many couples hide fantasies from their partner for fear that they will respond badly. I know modern society seems to suggest that sexual fantasy is predominantly a male thing. Nonetheless, I have been fortunate to have encountered many strong-minded women of all ages. They are not frightened to express their feelings. The downside, particularly with one very close friend, was that she scared men away. She especially intimidated alpha males. Unfortunately, since she was incredibly pretty, those were the very same men that were initially attracted to her. To the best of my knowledge, she is still single but totally happy with that.
We must regain our focus. How can we express our innermost desires? Our goal is to enhance our relationships without causing any damage to our existing ones..
If any of you have had experience sharing a fantasy with a significant other, I’d be thrilled to hear about it. Of course, you can share anonymously. How did the experience go? Was the response positive or negative? Was it a fantasy you could potentially live out, and if so, what was it like? Did it enhance your relationship in any way?
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