Being an older writer, I struggle nowadays with the need to label everything. In particular, I’m trying to understand what to call any taboo I write about. I also want to know how to refer to any fantasy I explore.
Take the topic of wife-sharing, a more common practice than we all probably want to admit. It would be interesting to know what proportion of couples have indulged in this. It would also be interesting to know how many have thought seriously about this. Specifically, how many consider the joys of a husband watching his wife or girlfriend having sex with another man.
The problem I’m having is whether to describe it as hotwife fantasy, cuckolding, or swinging. (I said I was older, I remember the seventies lol.) If you want to sound posh or pretentious, you say it’s a polyamorous relationship. Now, before you all rush to your keyboards to tell me they are all slightly different, I already know that. But, they all center on the fact that it’s a couple whose relationship does not follow the societal norm of monogamy. That’s another blog post altogether on what societal norms are. The point I’m trying to get to is simple. It all comes back to enjoying sex and relationships in whatever way you wish. if it’s safe, legal, and above all consensual do whatever you enjoy.
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